Hi V.
I'm a corper serving in one of the South-south states. While in camp, I met a former secondary school mate of mine and we reconnected. Since then, we've been inseparable. She told me she has an older cousin who wants a serious girlfriend and she'd like me to be that girl. Being single, I accepted.
She then introduced us on bbm, sent him my pictures and showed me his. We got talking, exchanged phone numbers and started keeping in touch. While i'm in the South-south, he resides in Lagos which is quite far away, so we havent been able to see.
The problem is, he doesn't call as often as before. Always giving excuses about being very busy but yet he claims to be in love with me. I on the other hand, have fallen totally for him and find myself always calling, wanting to know how he is faring.
He doesn't start up a chat with me on bbm and whenever I do, it takes him long to reply.
Whenever I complain to my friend (his cousin), she tries to make me understand that he is very busy and that I should be patient with him.
Sometimes I take to her advice and just relax, without calling, But even when I don't call for over a week, he too won't call! It really hurts and I don't know what to do.
Dear readers, what do you think? What should she do? What would you do?
ignore him biko,he obviously is 2 busy 4 a serious relationship
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