Showing posts with label Child. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Child. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 23, 2015

Word For Today: One Size Fits All

Read: John 3:10-21 
Whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16

Like most children, I thoroughly enjoyed Christmas. With great anticipation, I would snoop under the tree to see what toys and games awaited my eager grasp. So I felt deflated when I started getting things like shirts and pants. Grownup gifts were no fun! Then last Christmas, my kids gave me some cool socks with bright colors and designs. I almost felt young again! Even grownups could wear these socks, as the label reassured me: “One size fits all.”

Sunday, September 27, 2015

#ChildNotBride Trends on Twitter; Courtesy, Sanusi Lamido Sanusi


Following the recent revelation of Sanuusi Lamido Sanusi, Emir of Kano's secret marriage to an 18 year old Adamawa princess,  #ChildNotBride is currently on trend again, on Nigerian twitter. Trust Nigerians to react in the way they know best.

See tweets after the cut.


And then someone asks...
As expected, some are For the motion, while others are Against. What do you think? Is 18 too young to be married? Or is it the age difference?

Monday, October 21, 2013

Pictured: Police Sergeant Brutalises 8yr Old Daughter For Allegedly Being a Witch


A police sergeant from Ibiaku community, Mkpat Enin Local Government Area of Akwa Ibom State, Mr. Ita Ayamba, has allegedly brutalised and abandoned his eight-year-old daughter, Goodness Ayamba over her refusal to confess to witchcraft.

Ita was said to have paraded the little girl along the village streets naked, declaring that Goodness was responsible for his retrogression in the Police Force.

The said police sergeant tortured his daughter for several hours in an attempt to extract a confession of being a witch from her.

According to a family member, "When he discovered that Goodness had passed out, Ita abandoned her, having hit her chest with the butt of his AK 47 Rifle.

"None of us could go close to Ita to rescue Goodness as he had threatened to shoot anyone that dared.

"I don’t see how a child of that age could become a clog in the wheel of her father’s progress in the Police Force. We need to tell each other the truth. Progress in one’s career depends on the efforts one has made academically."

It was learnt that Ita had divorced Goodness’ mother some years back. He was said to have remarried almost immediately, leaving three children including Goodness with their grandmother.

A resident of the area, Okon Ekong, said that on July 28, 2013 when the children were on holiday, Ita had requested custody of them. He was said to be at his new station in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, at the time.

Ita’s former wife, Mrs. Anietie Ayamba, allegedly heeded his request and took the children to him. Ekong said that the children’s stepmother made life miserable for them.

He said, "It was during their stay in Port Hracourt, that their stepmother took the children to a Pentecostal church. Goodness was accused of witchcraft at the church. Her stepmother was told that Goodness was the person responsible for their father’s non-rising profile in the force.

"The father who was also in the church began to beat and kick Goodness in a bid to extract a confession about her witchcraft."

When Punch Metro visited Immanuel Hospital, Eket, Eket LGA, on Saturday, where Goodness was taken to for medical attention, it was gathered that she had been admitted at the intensive care unit of the children’s ward.

Nurses at the hospital said Goodness’ condition was stable but that her bones and chest cavity had been badly damaged.

A group of women lawyers under the aegis of Federation of International Women Lawyers have said that they would do everything within their power to ensure that Ita was brought to justice.

The state director of the organisation, Mrs. Mary Udonsek, stated that the women would not continue to sit back and allow men maltreat their children on the guise of labelling them witches.

Ita, said to be working at Trans Amadi Police Station, Port Harcourt, Rivers State had allegedly not been to Ibiaku, Mkpat Enin LGA since the incident.

The state Police Public Relations Officer, Mr. Etim Dickson, said the Rivers State Police Command would be contacted about the matter.

PUNCH

Friday, September 20, 2013

Meet the Woman Who Poisoned Her Kids to Keep Them From Ex Husband


According to CBS News, a 42-year-old woman Marilyn Edge is a mother of two who poisoned her 9-year-old daughter Faith, and her 12-year-old son Jaelen on Sunday because she had lost custody of them last week and was supposed to hand the children over to their father, Mark Edge. Their divorce and custody battle had been contentious, and in the end, Edge decided that she would rather not have her children at all than to let their father take care of them.
Since then, Edge has been arrested and charged with two counts of murder. Now according to KTLA, she has asked the presiding judge to give her the death penalty. At a hearing earlier this week, Edge reportedly repeatedly asked the judge to give her the death penalty after being asked about setting an arraignment date. Her response to such questions was, “Only if you promise me the death penalty.

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Meet Britain's Worst Wife Who Doesn't Clean or Cook & Only Makes Love To Her Husband "Once A Year"


This woman says her husband is the kindest, most considerate man in the world since during the seven years they've been married, Ben (the husband) has done most of the cooking, cleaning and ironing without ever being asked. 

He takes her breakfast in bed every morning and pampers her a lot. Guess what? he works full-time!
But for all he does for her in good faith, anxious to make everything good for her, he gets a raw deal in return. 


One would think that in contrast to her habit of not taking care of the home, she would be able to "take care" of her husband very well in the bedroom; but she says this is not so as she only does that on her husband's birthdays.


She practically does nothing at home. Her husband returns home in Twickenham, South-West London, after a hard day's work and finds her having a manicure or checking Facebook rather than slaving over a hot stove.
She says at 39, she's never ironed a single item of her husband's clothing and rarely cooks for him either because she believes she shouldn't bother, since he's so much better at cooking than she is. She says she's just too busy and involved in her career to do domestic chores.

Hmmmm. Trust me, such can NOT happen in Naija. The man would be so long gone, she'd have forgotten they ever got married! Naija man, no domestic work, no gymnastics in the bedroom??? Unacceptable! 

Father of 10 Kidnaps & Kills Neighbour’s 5-year Old Son After His Parents Failed To Pay Ransom


The State Security Service has arrested a father of 10, Saturday Dewakei, who allegedly kidnapped Abubakar Adamu, the five-year-old son of his neighbour and killed him when his demand for a N5m ransom was not met.

Punch reports Dewakei, 43, was said to have entered his neighbour’s room at Aso ‘C’ Gbagalape, Mararaba area of Abuja through the ceiling on April 19, 2013 and abducted Adamu while he was asleep.

The SSS tendered the remains of the victim on Wednesday, which were mainly bones, including his ribs, femur, dental cavity and a locally-made pistol that was recovered from the suspect.
Parading the suspect in Abuja on Wednesday, the SSS Deputy Director, Operations, FCT Command, Ibrahim Halilu, explained that  Dewakei killed the boy in an uncompleted building and dumped his body in a water-filled soakaway when the ransom he demanded was not paid.

He stated that the victim’s father, identified as Isah, paid Dewakei N100,000, adding that the suspect murdered Adamu because he was dissatisfied with the amount.
Halilu stated that Dewakei was apprehended by operatives when he accepted the offer of additional N300,000 after he had killed his victim.

“Investigation revealed that Dewakei killed the child and dumped the body in a soakaway when the ransom was not paid. He has taken operatives of this service to the scene of crime where the remains of the kidnapped boy were recovered,”Halilu said.
Dewakei, who appealed to Isah for forgiveness, said he kidnapped the boy. He said,
“I did not kill him. The victim was running away and he fell into the soakaway. I brought him out, but he had died because his hands were tied. The boy  died in my arms; the parents should please forgive me. I only kidnapped him to make small money.”

ThePunch

Friday, September 13, 2013

SHOCKING: Pakistani Man Drowns His Own Daughter, Because He Wanted a Son not a Daughter


A Pakistani man Umar Zaib has been arrested for drowning his own one-and-a-half years old daughter, because he wanted a son, not a daughter. When probed he said: "It was a mistake, I made a big mistake. I don't know what was going through my mind when I did it."

His 24 year old wife Sumera, had a very different story to tell. According to her, "It was late at night but my husband told me we all had to visit his sister, but we stopped close to the river, I had both our daughters with me. My husband told me I wasn't holding Zainab properly and he took her from me.In front of my eyes, he threw her in the river. I was helpless, I started crying, Zainab was screaming in the water but when I tried to save her he beat me.

Pleading for help, Sumera says her husband threatened to kill her as well if she told anyone, so for several days she was too scared to go to the police. Sumera says her husband threatened to kill her as well if she told anyone, so for several days she was too scared to go to the police. But finally she found the courage to tell her parents. 

Sumera also says she is certain of her husband's motive in killing their daughter. "Since our first daughter has born, he wasn't happy, he wanted a son, He said if I had another daughter, he'd kill our first child, Zainab. When, eight weeks ago, I did have another girl, he kept threatening more and more, then he did it.

The United Nations Children's Fund, Unicef, has a team dedicated to the issue in Pakistan. It says girls are murdered primarily because of cultural pressures and poverty. But for years, rights groups in Pakistan have also accused law enforcement agencies of not taking the issue seriously.

Monday, September 09, 2013

8yr old Yemeni Childbride Dies of Internal Injuries After Sex With 40yr Old Groom


An eight-year-old child bride has died in Yemen of internal bleeding sustained during her wedding night after being forced to marry a man five times her age, activists have claimed. 
The girl, identified only as Rawan, died in the tribal area of Hardh in northwestern Yemen, which borders Saudi Arabia. 
Activists are now calling for the groom, who is believed to be around 40 years old, and her family to be arrested so they can face justice in the courts.


They say arrests would help put a stop to the practice of marrying very young girls to older men in the impoverished region.

Angry Man, a blogger, posted that the man was 'an animal who deserved to be punished severely for his crime'.
'All those who supported such a crime should also be punished,' he added.
 
Another blogger, called Omar, wrote: 'Rawan’s family members are not humans. They do not deserve to have children.'
But another blogger, called 'Sad', appeared more sympathetic to the custom. He wrote: 'Her family and her groom could have waited for some time before having this marriage,' Sad said. 'It was not fair at all and the marriage should not have happened even if some tribes believe that it is a good custom.'


The practice of marrying young girls is widespread in Yemen and has attracted the attention of international rights groups seeking to pressure the government to outlaw child marriages.
Yemen's gripping poverty plays a role in hindering efforts to stamp out the practice, as poor families find themselves unable to say no to 'bride-prices' that can be hundreds of dollars for their daughters.
More than a quarter of Yemen's females marry before age 15, according to a report in 2010 by the Social Affairs Ministry.
Tribal custom also plays a role, including the belief that a young bride can be shaped into an obedient wife, bear more children and be kept away from temptation.
In September 2010, a 12-year-old Yemeni child-bride died after struggling for three days in labour to give birth, a local human rights organisation said.
Yemen once set 15 as the minimum age for marriage, but parliament annulled that law in the 1990s, saying parents should decide when a daughter marries.

Really Sad.


DailyMail

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Security Operatives Interrogate Mother of Stowaway Teenager Who Flew from Benin to Lagos in the Wheel Compartment of an Arik Air Flight


The mother of the 15-year-old stowaway, Ricky Daniel Ohikhena, who on Friday hid in the tyre compartment of an Arik plane on a flight from Benin to Lagos, was on Monday quizzed for hours by a combined team of security operatives from the Department of State Security Service and aviation security.
The mother, Evelyn, who confirmed that she was quizzed by the SSS operatives, said her son was a nice boy who never displayed any tendency for such a dangerous venture.

An embattled Evelyn said Daniel was a nice boy who did not mingle with bad friends.
She said, “My son answers Daniel in school and Ricky at home. I went to my elder sister’s place who put to bed and when I got home the next morning (Saturday), I couldn’t find him. My daughter told me that they quarrelled in the night because he woke at midnight to watch movies and she told him to stop watching movie in the night and she said he eventually slept in the parlour while she said she went back to sleep in the room.
“One of his younger brothers said he saw him remove all his school books from his bag; so I asked my neighbours whether any of them saw him and they told me that at around 5 to 6 am, they heard sounds that somebody was opening the gate but never thought it was my son. He doesn’t go out. What I know is that he is always watching films in the house but he doesn’t have friends.
“I went to Oba Market police station, they referred me to Evbuotubu police station, when I got there they said they will declare him missing after 24 hours and that I should come back the next day.”

Speaking on the type of person her son is, Evelyn said, “He is always at home, I have never seen anybody come to look for him and he doesn’t have friends. I am begging the government to help me, because I have never been to the airport before, I have been to Lagos before so they should help me. I don’t know how he manage to get there but I just thank God that he is alive.

Vanguard

Monday, August 26, 2013

Photo of the Day: Olamide steps out with Kaffy's son. CUTE!!


Olamide stepped out with Dance-queen, Kaffy's son and they even coordinated their outfits..He captioned the pics
"Disturbing d yard wiv my smally!!!"
lol

Badoo's shirt matching the smally's shorts is really cute!

Friday, August 23, 2013

Cameroonian Arrested For Allegedly Buying Baby For N1.2m in Calabar, Nigeria

A middle-aged woman believed to be from Cameroon, Evelyn Atemkeng, was arrested yesterday in Calabar, the Cross River State capital, by men of the Nigeria Immigration Service for allegedly buying a three day old baby at the cost of N1.2 million.
Mrs Atemkeng accompanied by her aged mother, Anastasia Fambong, was said to have bought the baby boy from a matron of a clinic in Delta State.
Commander of the Cross River State Command, Mr Samuel Ichoi, said his men accosted the lady while she was boarding a ship to Cameroon.
He said: "The lady came from Cameron to Nigeria on Friday without any sign of pregnancy but she was found to be carrying a baby and when my men examined her there are no signs that she just gave birth. So, she and the baby were apprehended."
Mrs Atemkeng told reporters she gave birth to the baby and that the money she paid into the account of the matron was for delivery and herbs she gave to her to aid delivery.
“She (matron) said my breast would start producing milk in three weeks but for now the baby is taking baby food,” Atemkeng said.
She said she came to Nigeria because she did not have anybody in Cameroon to take care of her.
She said: "I am married and my husband is in Cameroon but there is nobody to take care of me in Cameroon; that was why I came to Nigeria to deliver."
The Anti-Human Trafficking officer of the NIS at the Calabar Port, Mrs Agbor Ojong Ogar, said she took time to examine the woman and she did not have any sign of someone who just gave birth.
She said: "The woman passed here on Friday; she left on Saturday and returned to Calabar on Tuesday and was heading back to Cameroon with a baby and when we examined her, she does not have any signs of having given birth recently."

Lagos State Govt. Rescues 25 Children From Alleged Child Trafficker

The rescued children

Lagos State Government has rescued 25 children from an alleged child trafficker in the Egbeda area of the state.
It was learnt that the suspected trafficker, Mrs. Rosemary Nwachukwu, was also arrested and had been handed over to the Alausa Police Division, while the children are currently in government’s custody.
The government accused Nwachukwu of operating an illegal orphanage named, Saint Stephen Charity Foundation, on Abiodun Adebanbo Street, Egbeda.
It was gathered that officials from the Office of Youth and Social Department, led by the Director, Child Development, Mrs. Alaba Fadairo, in conjunction with personnel from the Office of Public Defender and policemen, stormed the orphanage on Saturday.
The government said findings showed that the suspect was using the orphanage as a front for another illegal business.

The Suspect, Mrs. Rosemary Nwachukwu
The Director, OPD, Mrs. Omotola Rotimi, said of the children, whose ages ranged from three months to 12 years, were victims of human trafficking.
Rotimi said, "It was discovered upon investigation that Nwachukwu trafficked 27 children and kept them in a room. We were able to rescue three infants of ages three to six months and 22 other children. Efforts are still on to locate the remaining two."
The OPD director added that the suspect used the victims for financial gains by putting them up for adoption. She said the suspect would be charged to court after investigations had been concluded.
However, Fadairo, said, "Investigation also shows that there are no records of each child and no evidence of how the children got to her orphanage. No police or security report."
Fadairo urged members of the public to be vigilant and report suspicious orphanages to the appropriate authorities. She said some of the orphanages might be fronts for human trafficking.
She said, "People and organisations that operated unapproved orphanages will be arrested and prosecuted according to the law."
But Nwachukwu said she had been running the orphanage for 18 years, adding that it was purely on charity basis, and without financial gain.
The Police Public Relations Officer, Ngozi Braide, said Nwachukwu was in police custody and would be charged to court on Friday (today).
She said, "We found out that she registered as a charity and thus not qualified to run an orphanage. She will be taken to court on Friday (today)."

ThePUNCH

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Girl child Abandoned @ three months old, goes missing 14 years later


A 14-year-old pupil of Command Children Primary School, Ikeja Military Cantonment, Lagos, Miss Augustina Ilevbare, is missing.
Augustina was last seen on Monday, August 5, 2013.

Until the fateful day, Augustina had been living with her father, Peter Ilevbare, a lance corporal with the Nigerian Army, 9 Brigade Garrison, Ikeja Cantonment and her stepmother,  at CBQ 75, Room 14 of the barracks.
Ilevbare, from Uroe Owen East Local Government Area of Edo State, when contacted on the phone, told PUNCH Metro that he had been living with Augustina since 1999.

He added that the girl left home without telling anyone where she was going.
He said Augustina was not born by his current wife, stressing that her mother abandoned her when she was three months old.
Ilevbare said he and the missing child’s mother were not properly married when she got pregnant for him.
He added, "Since that time, she had been living happily with me and her stepmother. Ever since her mother, whom I have severed relationship with, dumped her in my place when she was three months, I have not set my eyes on her.
"The Sunday preceding her disappearance, we (the family including Augustina), went to an eatery. That is why her disappearance is giving me cause for concern. I enquired from my wife whether they had a disagreement, she answered to the contrary."

The soldier said they had searched every nook and cranny for her but to no avail.
"Since that time, nobody has heard any information about her. She does not have phone for us to call. I searched for  her mother’s place, but she said she did not see our daughter.
"Why I am also disturbed is that nobody has called us for ransom to suspect that she must have been kidnapped,” he said.

Ilevbare said he had already reported the matter at Akinpelu Police Division in Oshodi.
He also said the matter had been reported to the Military Police office at the Ikeja Military Cantonment.
The spokesperson for the state police command, Ngozi Braide, said she could not reach the Divisional Police Officer of the station where the case was reported, adding that she would call back.

Friday, August 02, 2013

Under-aged Girl Kills Husband for Demanding Sex 6 times Everyday #ChildNotBride



The Plateau Police Command on Wednesday in Jos said it had arrested a 17-year-old minor who allegedly killed her husband over his sexual demands.

The minor allegedly killed Lawal Bala, 26, in his sleep on their matrimonial bed on July 8.
The Commissioner of Police in the state, Mr Chris Olakpe, said the police had also arrested some suspected criminals.
The minor, who spoke from the police custody, told newsmen that "he was sleeping with me six times in a day.
"I kept complaining to him that I could not stand his sexual urge but he refused to listen to my plea; no family member was ready to help me, so I did what I did.

She said that she regretted killing him, but that she thought that was the only option left for her to free herself from the pains she was passing through.
According to her, I have realised my mistake and have repented of my sin; all I want is for the authorities to allow me to go home.
The suspect said she was already two months pregnant for her late husband and would want to go home to take care of herself till delivery.

Earlier, Olakpe had said that when the matter was reported, and the minor was arrested, she denied committing the offence.
"But in the course of investigations, she later confessed to committing the crime and gave reasons," he said.

Olakpe, who said that the offence was a culpable homicide, added that she would soon be prosecuted at the Juvenile Court. 


 Source: VANGUARD ONLINE

SAD: 21yr Old Woman Beats 3yr Old Girl To Death For Throwing Up


Rebecca and the dead child
A 21-year-old woman, Rebecca Bassey, has been arrested by the Lagos State Police Command for allegedly beating her husband’s three-year-old niece, Deborah Bassey, to death.
According to police authorities, the suspect beat up the girl because she vomited and defecated on herself.
A Police source told us on Thursday that the incident occurred at Ijaiye Ojokoro area of the state on July 22, 2013.
He said, "The victim (Deborah) lost her mother in 2010. Early this year, Deborah’s father was evicted from his home and he decided to send Deborah and his second child to go and stay with his brother, Vincent, until he settles down.
"Deborah and her nine-year-old sister were living with Vincent and his wife, Rebecca, in a one-room apartment at Powerline, Jankara, Ijaiye Ojokoro. However, Rebecca was always maltreating the two children."

According to police investigations, on the day of the incident, Deborah woke up around 5.30am with a high temperature.
The three-year-old girl was said to have started vomiting and defecating soon after. This was said to have angered Rebecca, who instead of administering first-aid to the child or rushing her asap to a health care centre, decided to beat her up.
A police source said, "In the process of beating the girl, the suspect pushed her and she fell, hitting her head against the edge of a wooden chair in the room."

We learnt that the victim started to bleed from the head. Some neighbours rushed her to Ahmadiyya Hospital, where she was referred to Orile Agege General Hospital where she later died.
A woman leader in the area, Kudirat Ogunseyi, was said to have reported the matter to Ijaye Ojokoro Police Division after which the suspect was arrested.
Some neighbours, in their statements at the police station, described the suspect as a hot-tempered woman, who was fond of beating the children.
"The way that woman beats up the children was very worrying to the extent that the landlord had threatened to evict them," one of the statements reads.

 Vincent told the police that he was not present when his wife beat his niece to death.
"I was not at home when the incident happened. I am a photographer during daytime but I work as a vigilante group member. So I hardly sleep at home," he said.
The suspect however said she did not kill the victim deliberately. She said she only pushed Deborah and she hit her head against the chair.
"“I am a housewife and I have a 10-month-old baby. I did not mean to kill her (Deborah). I only pushed her because she vomited and defecated on the floor. I was only trying to correct her. It was not deliberate. I am a mother too and I know how I would feel if my son was killed," she said.
It was learnt that the matter had been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Department, Yaba.
A source at the SCID said the police were waiting for autopsy. He added that if other wounds were found on other parts of the victim’s body, it would prove that the victim was indeed tortured before her death.
When contacted on the telephone, the Police Public Relations Officer, Ngozi Braide, said she would call back.

Source: PUNCH

PS:  Sorry guys for being MIA for some time. It was due to circumstances beyond my control... crashed laptop... ill health  and others. But I'm glad I'm back... thanks for staying with me. I promise to continue bringing you news on the go... thanks y'all.

Thursday, July 18, 2013

Photo: Woman Burns Son’s Face with Hot Spoon, Stabs Him With Broken Bottle

 
A woman, Sakirat Attah, 25, has been arrested by the police at Elemoro Division, Lekki, Lagos, southwest Nigeria, for severely scalding her son’s face. 
The petty trader who resides at Abijo village in Ibeju Lekki, allegedly carried out the dastardly act while punishing little Daniel for licking their neighbour’s soup. It was gathered that Sakirat also used a broken bottle to stab Daniel in the head during her fit of anger and he sustained a deep cut in the head. A  police source said that the victim’s neighbours rescued him from his mother and quickly rushed him to a nearby hospital to forestall excessive loss of blood. The trouble started for the little boy when their co-tenant allegedly caught him licking their pot of soup and reported him to his mother. The mother of the child was said to have dragged her son inside her room and locked the door. She allegedly lit her stove and put an iron spoon on it to get hot and used it to burn her son’s face and hands as punishment. It was also gathered that when the little boy was not cooperating with her, she allegedly broke a bottle and stabbed him in the head before neighbours who heard the boy crying for help entered the woman’s room and rescued him. 
During  interrogation, the little boy allegedly admitted licking the soup because he was very hungry since his mother did not provide food for him to eat on time. The neighbours, it was learnt, reported the matter to the police who arrested the woman. 
Also during  interrogation, the culprit allegedly admitted scalding her son with hot spoon to teach him a lesson not to steal again, adding that she did not know that the torture would cause the boy such injuries. 
After investigation, she was charged before an Igbosere Magistrate’s Court, Lagos on a one count charge of assaulting a minor and causing bodily harm. 
The offence, the prosecutor, Supol E. C. Ekuma said, contravened section 171 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, 2011. The accused pleaded not guilty to the charge and the presiding chief magistrate, Mrs. Femi Segun admitted her on bail in the sum of N100,000 with two sureties in like sum with proof of two years tax payment to the  Lagos State Government.
She also directed that one of the sureties must be a blood relation, while the other must be a community leader.