Men to Marry

On first blush, it is difficult to resist the men who look like Adonis. They are tall, dark, handsome, look great in both Speedos and a tux, and have abs that are to die for.

But ladies, remember this, the looks fade very quickly.

Once Adonis gets a 9am-5pm job, and settles into middle age, things will quickly begin to change. He will spend all his free time sitting on the couch, watching sports while eating wings and drinking beer. The once six-pack abs will quickly become a single large keg.

His hair might go bald, his butt will sag, and soon all you will be left with are your tarnished dreams and faded wedding pictures.

If Adonis is not our Prince Charming, then who is?

The best men to marry are the ones who treat you well, have great financial potential, as well as a fun and compatible personality - in that order.

1. Men who treat you well.

You want to find a man who appreciates you, and who will put you above everything else, even himself. You want to find a man who is willing to share the house chores, willing to make coffee for you and all silly stuff, 

Avoid the control freak at all costs.

If a man wants to control little things like which restaurant you go to, what you order for dinner, what music you listen to in the car, then it is time to take that emergency phone call and run like hell.

If you think that you can change a control freak, then you are sadly mistaken. Control freaks will only want to control you - not the other way around. Men with control disorders will often become verbally or physically abusive to get what they want.

2. Men who are financially sound.

You may think that this is very mercenary of me and totally unromantic, but there is nothing romantic about not having enough money to buy food, or pay the rent. There is nothing romantic about not having furniture and living out of a box with five kids and another one in the oven.

Call me crazy and unromantic, but I do like having a roof over my head, access to food and water, and yes cable television!

3.Men with a compatible personality.

Many women look for men who are witty, humorous, interesting, fun, and extremely clever. All these are good to have, but the most important thing of all is to find a man who is compatible with you.

Compatibility may sound boring and really like something what your mom would say, but hey, we have already established that your mom is sometimes right - probably more often than you would want to admit.

When you live with someone every day, sleep with him, wake up with him, brush your teeth with him, constant jokes can get annoying, and witty one-liners will quickly begin to grate on your nerves.

Really you want a man who will be there with you to take care of business, and who can complement your weaknesses with his strengths.

You want someone whom you can talk to about anything and everything. You want someone you will have fun with doing things that you both enjoy. You want someone that is compatible.

I guess I could use the term 'soul-mate' to make compatible sound more romantic.

Finally,

There are two types of men: Dishonorable men and Honorable men.
Don’t date or marry until you know how to tell the difference between the two!
The woman in the mirror will graciously thank you.
Honorable Men are protectors. They will guard your heart, protect your emotions, defend your honor and stand as champions for your spiritual, mental and physical well-being; many see the dishonorable and prefer to choose them over the honorable.

Your today isn't what really matters but your tomorrow.
Don't let emotions or feelings choke your future, let God choose your future.

 A Word Is Enough For the Wise!