Showing posts with label Cheat. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Cheat. Show all posts

Monday, December 07, 2015

Why will a man cheat? - Juliet Ibrahim


Cheating is a subject that has brought arguments between people, time and again. While some people believe men are born cheats, others believe cheating is influenced...
So, beautiful Ghanaian actress Juliet Ibrahim shared a post on this delicate topic (see below) on social media last night and as expected, a lot of people reacted with their own views on the subject.
One of her followers says "the fact is men cheat and women cheat too... Let's not make excuses for anyone..."


Do you agree with Ms. Ibrahim? Please share your thoughts.

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

SAD: Wife Caught Cheating; Husband Shaves Her Hair in Public as Punishment [WATCH]


In this video a woman is held down by other guys as her husband forcefully shaves off her hair for allegedly cheating on him. 
I really feel bad for her.
Do you think she deserved this? 

See video here:

Friday, August 23, 2013

Nollywood Actress Stella Damasus Advises Women on How to Keep Their Man [READ]



She writes: 

Anyway let me go to the topic I want to discuss today "keeping your man".This is for the married women o please this is not targeted at single girls.

Now we know that the one thing men cannot live without apart from money is SEX. In this forum I really don't care where anyone is from or what religion you belong to, I will be as raw and honest as possible.

I do not understand why women especially Africans do not talk about sex when we know that it is the one thing we do regularly with so much pleasure.

Anyway our men love sex to the max and we know that for a fact. So how come when we are dating them we are so willing to give them what they want even though we know it is wrong. The first few years of marriage is filled with sex almost five times a day in different parts of the house and at odd hours, but after the few years we start to back down, we start to make excuses, we start to see it as a chore and then we let them know that we are really not interested in them physically.

Wow, what happened to the lady fox, the hot chic, the sexy cat that he got married to?
What happened to the babe that would understand the signal he would give and immediately comply?
What happened those times when he would race home to his sexy energetic ever ready wife who would make him feel wanted?
I know that most of you will say "I have kids who wear me out, I have work that drains me, I got older, my sex drive has gone under, I have a headache" to the point that the man will need to get a visa at your "embassy" to visit his favorite place in the World.

When you do this to him, how do you expect him to come home everyday to look at your tired, grumpy and unfriendly face?

How would you expect him to come home to you complaining about the plumber, your child that was being rude, and your boss that gave you a hard time?
NOOOOOOO please.

At that point he wants you to take him to that special place were the sky is so wonderful and turn his brain around to the point that all you say will sound like sweet music to his ears.
These men are human beings who go through their own challenges, half of which you don't even know because they are trying to save you from all the stress.

What annoys me the most is when we women start to complain and nag about the men not having time for us, and how they no longer find us attractive anymore and that's where the suspicion starts. That's when the saying comes, "if he is not getting it from me someone else must be giving it to him".

I don't encourage cheating at all in fact it goes against what the bible teaches no matter what. I will not also judge anyone who has been caught in a web he is not proud of for one reason or the other. I believe that if we are truly sorry for our sins and we go to God with the determination not to sin again, he is merciful and will forgive us.

In all of this I know that all men are not beasts, neither are they evil because we married them. I also know that men do not get married and carry it at the back of their minds that they must cheat. That's not how it works please. There are things that we do that trigger things in their brains and these things drive them to do things that they really would not have done. Most of us believe it when they say men don’t think with their brains but they think with their penis. I beg to differ because they know what they are doing and I don’t see how the penis can have a brain that will control the whole body. There is always something that sparks off in the brain that sends the signal to the penis.
You may or may not agree with me but this is what I choose to believe. Most men we married are not so evil and dubious, some may be cowards but cast your mind back to the kind of man you chose to marry and see if there were traces of that character or not.

What men want: 
- They want to feel like they are in control of things which is not bad because they are the head.
- They want to feel loved and like it or not they are our first babies who desire words of affirmation no matter how macho they seem.
- They want to feel WANTED all the time, it gives them the confidence that all men crave for.
- They want to know you are still sexually attracted to them.
- They don't want you to make it obvious that you are smatter even if you are.
- They like their space and alone time.
- They don't want to come home to a fat mama who is the opposite of the sexy curvy woman he fell in love with, because she let herself go after they got married. 
Why should she try and look the same? She is married now, who else does she have to impress? WRONG! Men are first of all moved by what they see before anything else. So when they can't see that anymore or at least an effort to getting back that body that turned them on, they'll probably lose interest in you and find someone else.
- They don't want to come and hug you after work with you smelling of onions and oil. At least take a shower before he gets there or if there is no time spray perfume.
- They want to come home to a nice smelling neat and tidy home.
- They want to walk into the bedroom with the bed all made up and clothes arranged. Maybe a small note on his pillow saying I love you and I am glad you are home, that definitely puts an automatic smile on his face even if for three seconds, it keeps him interested in you
- They want you to be a good listener not just a talker.
- They want to know that you believe in them and you are proud of them.
- They want to know that no matter what you will have their back and support them, then ask questions later.
- They just want to see that you are making an effort because no human should expect you to be perfect.
- They don't want another mother but they want you to take care of them the way you would your kids.
- They want a wife, girlfriend, sorry to say (personal call girl) which is not a bad thing because he is your husband who is free to express his sexual desires as long as they are not life threatening or demeaning.

There are so many things I can add and you will not stop reading so let me end this by saying: if you do not try to do at least 60% of this regularly, trust me a younger version of you will cross his path and that is exactly how the enemy works. When that younger and more energetic version of you catches his eye, your matter will quietly end. This girl will rock his world so bad that coming home to you will become a chore. These girls can give him all these things and even more that the men find it so difficult to resist. All the money that was supposed to go to you and your children will find their way to her pocket. They can get anything they want from your man because they know the secret to getting and keeping him.

I know that this article will cause a lot of controversial wahala but it is fine because in life people don't like to hear the truth. This might also be an opportunity for people to make silly comments but the truth is I am loving it all. I finally have the attention of people who will ordinarily not want to listen to me or watch me.

Ladies on a more serious note, if you are guilty of these crimes and are depriving your husband of what is rightfully his then don't be shocked when a younger version of you gets the best of him.
I will let you all know when the extended version of this topic will be on my YouTube channel. God will bless your homes and give you the wisdom you need to keep it together.

Think about this objectively, try out what you agree with and discard what you don't. Leave the messenger out of it for a change and see the bigger picture ahead.

Take care of yourselves and remember that I love you all. 

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Ermm, okay to the "controversial wahala" part. Of course, it would spark some controversy because of her status in the society. 
1. She's neither married nor un-married.
2. She's currently in a relationship with a yet-to-be-divorced movie maker
I could go on and on but... 
Let me allow you guys be the judge. 

Considering her social/relationship status, what do you think about this write-up? 
With lines like "This is for the married women o please this is not targeted at single girls" and "So how come when we are dating them we are so willing to give them what they want even though we know it is wrong", I can't help but be confused about what she really stands for.

In my opinion though, there's a lot more to the Stella-Daniel-Doris circle. I'll be sure to bring the full gist if an when it blows up! 

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Housewife Dies During Sex With Lover In Hotel


The price of adultery is always tragic if one considers what happened at the weekend in Lagos between a young man and a married woman in a hotel room.The man took the housewife identified as Glory Abbey to a popular hotel where she died during a sex romp between the lovers.
The yet to be identified man quietly abandoned her corpse in the room they lodged and fled without informing the hotel’s management about what happened.The incident happened at Kings of Queens Hotel located at 11, Otunba Oladokun Street, Lanre Bus Stop, Igando, Lagos State, southwest Nigeria.What could have caused her death was not yet known because the autopsy report is not yet out.

According to the hotel’s manager identified as Saliu, the woman came to the hotel with the young man, booked a room and went in."After staying for several hours in the room the man came out and told the security men that he wanted to buy food outside and he did not return to the hotel," he said.
They later discovered the woman lying dead on the bed in the room.Saliu said he did not see any physical injury she sustained and could not explain what really caused her death.

The owner of the hotel, Otunba Richard Oladokun, who also confirmed the incident, expressed shock over what happened.He said he was informed about what happened on phone by his manager and he went to the police station at Igando and reported the matter. He said he came with the police to the hotel and found the woman lying dead on the bed and the police took away her corpse to the mortuary.
Oladokun said what surprised him most was that the young man who brought the woman to the hotel initially picked his calls and promised to come back but did not. Rather, he later switched off his phone and no one has been able to contact him again since the incident happened. Nobody has been able to contact the woman’s husband or relatives as there is no address to trace them at the time of this report.

Confirming the incident, the Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, Ngozi Braide, described Glory’s death as sudden and  unnatural. She said her body has been deposited at the mortuary for autopsy, while the police have since commenced investigation into the matter.
A  similar incident happened sometime ago when a married woman who had four kids was found dead after she went to a hotel in Mushin with her lover who is also married and has kids.
During the sex romp, the woman collapsed and died. After she died, her lover attempted to escape but he was caught and handed over to the police.The police later charged him with murder at Ebute Meta Magistrate’s Court Lagos.

PM News

Friday, June 14, 2013

Kanye West Will Never Be Faithful to Kim Kardashian - Leyla Ghobadi

 Leyla Ghobadi



The model at the centre of the Kanye West-Kim Kardashian cheating saga has warned his girlfriend, Kim that He’ll never be faithful.

Culled from The Sun

Last night she broke her silence and told The Sun she DID romp with the hip-hop star three times — but BEFORE he dated Kim.

She said she met Kanye, 36, when she went backstage at his concert on 22 November 2011 in her hometown Montreal. 

Leyla revealed: “I was introduced to him at the Montreal concert. We met backstage as I knew members of his band. We ended up having sex at the Thompson Hotel.
"“He then flew some friends and I out to Toronto for his two concerts in the next two days. We had sex again there. This was all before Kim Kardashian and he never spoke about her. But what I do know is that Kanye is a Romeo — he can never be trusted."
 Leyla and Kanye West

He will never be faithful to one girl and has women falling at his feet all the time.”

A US magazine claimed on Wednesday the Gold Digger star — who releases his new album Yeezus next week — cheated on pregnant Kim, 32, in October.
The mag also reckoned Kanye was trying to contact Leyla as recently as last week, which she denies.

But she said: "I can’t believe all this publicity — I’m having anxiety attacks. I’ve been out with other singers and never kissed and told. I’m not starting now".
"I’m not the type to talk about such things — I’ve got family and friends to consider."
Kanye has denied the cheating claims.
His spokesman said: "This attack on Kanye and his family is totally without merit."
By the way, very pregnant Kim, was seen going about her regular business, 2 days after a US magazine broke the Kanye-cheat story.
 
#MyOpinion
* No Smoke without Fire.
* This Leyla Ghobadi is a disgrace; being an easy girl is one thing, but telling everyone your legs 
   are open for all is another...
* Kim is more interested in dropping this baby right now than anything else. So if you are expecting a 
   reply/response/ or whatever from her, you'd certainly have a long wait.
*  Did she say he will never be faithful to one woman because he has women falling at his feet all the time? #Stale
If a girl could sleep with our very own HKN Boss Davido and post the picture all over, who wouldn't with Kanye?
By the way, Men don't cheat because they have women falling at their feet. 
They cheat because it is in their DNA.
 
#okbye